Except for me and MorningRoc. We said you should shag her. She is sending you nekkid pictures of herself, you are two consenting adults... I don't see what the problem is. Seriously, what other hints would it take?

It might be prudent to consider how the friendship may change if he decides to go forward with his desires.

Hey, sometimes I get things right. But it's not like I didn't tell you anything you didn't already have up there somewhere in your head.

Keep us posted.

Edit: I guess people don't like my advice too much, seeing as how I've lost two karma in the last day after posting here. 

Its almost like you already have all the crap from a bad relationship dumped right on you, you might as well have some fun out of it. That's the way I see it. I mean really, if she was your friend she wouldn't put you in the middle of the train wreck by involving you.

If you do get into it that way just make sure you take control of EVERYTHING. If you let her have any control over your life, your decisions, or whatever she will pour that drama in there. I have a feeling that this situation is not over.

Well...101011 is right in a way, I don't believe in moral absolutes or even morality for that matter...but I do consider it unethical to take advantage of someone's weakness...she's stupid for staying with her douchebag boyfriend and the fact that she wants attention from a guy while maintaining her relationship with her boyfriend is very stupid, the whole thing has an easy fix, she just wants to have her cake and eat it too...Therefore, stupidity is in fact a weakness so thats why I'm just staying away from her and her problems.  The only thing is that she's not by any means innocent, she is an grown woman in her 20's and has more experience than me when it comes to this.  She was already banging guys at 15 while I was still wearing ninja turtles PJs (well, I still am) so no one here is innocent or helpless, just stupid, her for putting up with her boyfriend and me for even considering bringing that garbage into my life. 

Coming here and ranting about this helped me put things into perspective, I almost got into a bad situation...I know no one was going to get killed or anything but its drama I didn't need, I'm barely getting my life right now and that would have just distracted me from my goals. 

I'd like to point out that the potential for her to lie to get what she wants is highly likely.

These kinds will say and do what they please to get what they want, and they don't care who they hurt--it's all about them.  She'll never be completely detached from "that guy" or possibly any others.  It wouldn't surprise me if she's been unfaithful before, with other boyfriends, or multiple boyfriends, and thinks that "ex-sex" is perfectly okay, even when in a committed relationship.

Of course, I could be way off base here.

She's spank bank material, not marriage material.

Thanks, Crypto, for giving us something to chew on while quietly allowing us to feel superior because {sarcasm} WE would never find OURSELVES in that kind of situation.  Ever! {/sarcasm}

Done good, Crypto.  Done good.  You're actually better off paying a prostitute to get you off than do anything with this girl.  At least you KNOW exactly what to expect, you KNOW she's a whore, and you can plan accordingly.

In some ways, prostitutes are more honest than women like her.

Of course, there is still the problem of those neat, trendy diseases.

Other than the specific advice I've just given, I don't have any more, as my own love life is so much of a mess, you want to talk about being the bad example:  I am it.

So while I can give advice on what NOT to do (because I've done it)...I have yet to be able to dispense advice as to what TO do.

But I'm working on it;  I really am.

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You just made it into Quotable Quotes at the PAA with that one, mister!

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